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When it is time to leave....

'Now, it is time to go. I have prepared new things for you said the Lord. But Lord, I am feeling good here. I love them so much she cried. Do you trust Me? He finally asked her. She knew it was the end of their little chat.' This was me few months ago. God told me it was time for me to go into a new land and part of the world I do not know. I would lie if I tell you He never told me that before. In fact, He spoke to me throughout the year 2015 through visions but I closed my ears. The fear of new things paralyzed me and I soon began to be rebellious to Him. As you can guess, my rebellion to God did not give me peace, I became very depressed and barren spiritually. I had to repent sincerely to recover my spiritual wellness. I was leading the Youth Department in the church and I cannot tell you how much I struggle in the ministry once I became rebellious to God. 2015 was a year where I have learnt through tears and depression that it is better to obey than to sacrifice.

His Word is true for your life

Have you heard God telling you something and until now you are waiting for it? Then this post is for you. We are all awaiting things God promised to give us. The problem some have is that while we wait, we proclaim negative things on our lives and this makes the blessings of God to be postponed in our lives. Ecclesiastes 3 tells us that there is a season for everything. There is a season to wait, there is a season to receive, there is a season to love, there is a season to love. In each of the seasons of our lives, God wants to build something in us. The waiting season is a season where God builds up our characters. Depending on what God has for you, He may make you go into the wilderness. The wilderness is a season where nothing flows, where your friends leave you, where you are alone with your battle and God. The wilderness is a season where God teaches you to trust and depend on Him. Some wilderness takes one months, some are longer. The longer, the merrier? I do not

KEYS TO FULFILL YOUR SEASON OF SINGLENESS|FINAL PART

There is a time for everything under the sun. At a certain period in my life, I wanted God to reveal to me the times for His blessings in my life. I was asking Him, when will be the time for me to get a job, to enter into ministry, to get married and so on. At a point, I became very worried because to me I was in danger. But you see faith is a spiritual thing. We live by faith as Christian, we do not live by prophecies. Prophecies over our life can strengthen our faith but we cannot live by them. To God, faith is really important. Maybe you really feel alone. Maybe you see your age flying and you question God about your marriage. Know that God will not give you the exact time. He may tell you it will be in two years but He won't tell you you will meet him tomorrow. God loves to surprise us. He makes all things beautiful at his time(Ecclesiastes3:11). In this verse ,God does not talk about His time but rather on the time He appointed for this thing you want. There is a

KEYS FOR FULFULLING SINGLE SEASON |PART3

[God desired you, imagined then created you with passion] 'I am depressed, Tabitha. I am 29 and still do not have a beloved. I am tired. ' Me: Are you serving in your church?' Singleness is not a curse, it is a blessing. Ladies, once you will be married, there will be tons of things you would not do anymore. For instance, you would not be able to sleep at the side of the bed you like. I love sleeping on the left side on my bed. I do not know if my husband to be would be happy to sleep on the right side. You may say ' Would that be a problem, well. Yes, if you stick to your position'. My pastor shared with us once that a couple almost divorced because at night they were having issues on the air conditionneer and the electric fan. One wanted the air conditionneer and the other the fan. It became a huge problem. There is a time for everytime. You should enjoy your time of being just alone. No matter the age you have. Do not open the

How my Husband and I met

Look at this smile! Look at that ring! Look how happy she is! I love Weddings! It is so beautiful! Who can speak best about marriage if not the one who is enjoying her marriage!!!! Women who do not enjoy their marriage would not recommend their sisters to marry, they will give them '100 reasons why a marriage will stress you out'. But this is not our portion, and if we know some married women going through a tough time, let s get on our knees and pray for them! We need each other in this world! I used to be very bitter. This was because I suffered a lot from the divorce of my parents. They divorced when I was 9 and it took me 10 years to recover. I had so much hatred for men that I used to play with their hearts. When I was in high school, I had the nickname of Beyoncé.  This was because I knew all her songs and dance moves. I was just crazy about her. I loved seducing men and sleep there and sleep. Not because I was in love, I just wanted to brea

Keys to a fulfilling season of singleness | PART 2

Good day my beautiful!!! I hope this previous post helped you to see in a new angle your singleness. Today, I would like to share with you another key that the Holy Spirit gave me. Singleness without a purpose is boring and useless. I met many Christian married ladies and they kept me telling the same thing over ' I discovered my purpose while I was single. I thank God because today I do not depend on my husband to exist'. God did not create us to depend on our future husband. We came in to help men to achieve their purpose by complementing them. Many Single Christian ladies believe that once they marry their desires will be fulfilled. They think changing their status will make them complete!!! What a schock!  If you are on this group of sisters, please change your mind and fill it with the Word. God never created incomplete people. He created complete people. We are complete in Him not in a husband. Use this season to discover who you are. I love

Keys to a successful season of singleness!

Have you ever been in a situation where you do not know how to enjoy your season? You feel void and do not know what to do? And on top of that, you are single! Have you ever been in a situation where you think ' yes, I am single but I do not want to become desperate and search a man because I do feel like there is a purpose for me in this season designed by God?' Well, if you have been there, bear with me for some minutes. I was just like you a year ago. I felt very alone, everyone around me was having a beloved ( a person you are in couple with and the purpose is marriage both of you are keeping yourself pure before God) and so was I completely alone. My close friends could not hang out with me anymore as I wished because they had to bond with their husbands to be. I became very depressed, I tell you. It was in this season that God connected me with great women of God and that He taught me a lot about the purpose of singleness and marriage. I would like to s

Daugther, do not sell your destiny!

' As I was making my niece eat, the devil wishepered to my ears' look, this is a delicous chocolate croissant will you not have a bite of it. Cut your fast and taste this croissant. You will not postpone your blessings for this.' This was me one day. I was fasting during this period because I really needed to be restored and strengthened by the Lord. I wanted to know where I was in my walk with Christ. Trust me fasting is one of the best way to maintain your connection with God and be restored. Yes, when you pray, serve the Lord in your local church you are connected to God. But when you fast, you become more sensitive to the voice of God. Why?Because your flesh is submitted to the Lord and your spirit communes daily with your Master. When you practice this spiritual exercise often, it becomes easy for you to not accomplish the desires of the flesh to do the will of your Heavenly Fasther. The devil knows that when we fast, blessings will follow us accor

Slowly heading to your purpose

'She went out and decided to pray in tongues as walking. It was not the first time she has done it and today once again the Lord led her to only pray in His language. So she was praying not aloud though but she prayed. As she approached the robot, she heard a voice calling her ' Tabitha' it was a gentle voice. She knew it was Her Lord and Master.' This was my day on Friday, I never had such an experience with the Lord before. I had friends and even mothers in the Lord that told me not to call them by their names but by the ones God gave them. I never doubted their judgment, but I always wondered how God could call someone by another name? Name that you did not received from your parents. He called me 'Tabitha' and I was asking Him why Lord why Tabitha. Personally and for those who know me, I love so much Esther. If you asked me, what was my favorite book in the Bible before, I would say without hesitation Esther. I just loved the similitude she has with Jesu

Follow Me on my YouTube Channel!

Have you ever been asked to do something knowing that you lacked of some resources?  This is exactly what happened to me. It has been a while the Lord put it in my heart but I was so discouraged for I knew that I didn't have all the equipment such as a good camera,  a computer(.mine just crashed) and so on. But I decided not to give up and to start with the strength I have to start off :my love for God,  the Holy Spirit and my phone. To keep up with me,  click the link below. Stay blessed!   https://youtu.be/wF_O2L0vU-M

The blessing of His sacrifice

Picture taken on Pininterest.com Have you ever looked back to your previous life speaking about how God changed you and still does? Have you ever imagined what would happened to you if He had not laid out His very life for you? I cannot say thank you properly to God for the sacrifice of His Son.   Words cannot express properly what Jesus had done for me. What I think about His sacrifice, I thank God for calling me and saving me. For those who have read my previous posts, you would know how my life was. A great fornicator I was. I could do it from Monday to Sunday although I attended a Church at that time religiously, it did not stop me. You see the fact that you are a Regular Christian at church services does not mean necessarily that you are saved and mature. Christianity is about relationship. The relationship of God and us through Christ Our Savior. I always cry when I think about how God saved me. You see do not judge people who sin despite your rebukes. Do not despise

My test of Relationship

Have you found yourself once in a situation whereby you had to stay home by force? Have you found yourself in a situation whereby you could not go to church anymore? Have you found yourself in a situation where you had to pray and have your church service at home? This has been my case for about one full week. My country was going under some political tensions and because of that no one dared go out. In fact, the ones who attempted to do that were killed and hurt, so it was wise for the population to stay home. It was a scary moment but in this period, God tested my relationship with Him. I can describe myself as a regular church member. I am always at church services, during conferences and so on. I can never missed out a service. If I am not around, it means something happened and I could not come. I recalled of a leader who said during a service' there will be a time where we would not be able to come to church so we have to mature as Christian and learn to pray on our o

When building, stick up to your vision

Since I created the blog by the Grace of God, God laid into my heart a burning vision. Each time that I want to give up, the vision burns into my heart and I am reminded of the Word God gave me. You see everytime the Lord will send you, He will make sure to give you a Word for it will be His power within you. ' Where there is no vision, the people perish' Proverbs 29: 18. Your vision makes you, it shows you where you should go. Each time, the Lord sent someone in the Bible, He gave the person his purpose. When God created Adam, He told him that he had to be fruitful, to multiply and fill the earth Genesis 1:28. Aim to know the purpose of your life. If you still do not know it, I beg you go into the inner chamber and ask God. God knows that without the vision, you shall perish. Because you know who you are, you will know with who you should associate yourself with. Because you know who you are, you would know not to mess with your body. Because you know who you are, y

Ladies,Your situation is not your identity

Good day all wonderful ladies in the Lord, Today, I am so blessed to write to you once again. I have been off for a while and I thank God for it was for good. We celebrated three weddings and we saw the hand of God throughout those blessed events. I was honoured to be the maid of honor during one of those weddings and I thank God for this grace. I would like today to encourage again a lady and remind her of the fact that she is not her ' problem'. Those days, as we speaking of the church were so overwhelmed with the organization of those weddings, I could hear many women thinking about their future. When will I get married? I think marriage is not for me, look how I am growing older still no proposal.... Some women already married were also thinking of their future in terms of having babies. They thought they would not have the grace to have some before they die. Most of them lost hope and start to feel comfortable in the situation where they were....Sad, isn't it?

Leting go of the OLD!

Isaiah 43: 19 S ee, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? Hello beautiful Women of God! I trust the Lord that you are doing well by His Special Grace. The Word says that His Grace is sufficient for us! No matter the season where you find yourself in at the moment, know that His Grace is enough for you....Keep praying and abiding in Him. Today, I would like to talk about new things! Sometimes, we wish to go higher in life, get new challenges, meet new people, we desire God to do new things in us. But you know a new thing comes only to replace an old thing. If something is new, it means that there was an old thing that is NOT ANYMORE! The question is ' How many Christian want to see new things but still holding on onto their old things or past? God cannot do something new in the old vessel. You and I new to change our old man and embrace the new one.  You and I need to make the decision to renounce to old things. The old thing in your l

What did they say about you?

Hello ladies!!!! This video is just an encouragement to us all! I watched 'Brave at heart' which is a movie made by Lizzie Velasquez and was really moved. I kept repenting cause I realized how I was ungrateful to God, complaining about things, and so on. I understand now in a deeper way why the Word says we should continually give thanks to GOD, but I will develop this point in another blog. Please kindly watch this video to encourage your faith and do not forget to tag your friend as well. Let us drive our visions with the help of the Holy Spirit! You are not what they say you are, but you are what God told you , you are! With Much Love. Joy

Woman, learn to boost yourself!

Luke 8: 43 And a woman having an issue of blood twelve years, which had spent all her living upon physicians, neither could be healed of any Hello beautiful women of God! Today, I would like to encourage you  with this scripture about this woman with the issue of blood. Have you been called by your problem before? Have you been putting aside because of your status? Have you been despised because of your current situation? Let me introduce to  you this particular woman, who was also called by her problem. For twelve years, she was suffering from the same problem. At that time, when a woman was having her periods, she was not allowed to be inside the temple, she could not be with others because of her status she had to finish, be purified to be accepted again.  I admire the faith of this woman, because she had to overcome depression, she had to overcome criticism from people, she had to overcome bad thoughts, and overcome fear. For twelve years, she did all she can to be

Do not move until He moves

Hello beautiful women of God! I trust the Lord that you are doing well. Remember thank God for what you already have and trust Him for what you have not yet! I have learnt to do this prayer and if I forget the Holy Spirit brings it up to my remembrance. Today, I would like to encourage you on moving with God. Many times, we find ourselves in cases where we need to make up our minds about something and since we prayed, He has not answered us yet. My advice to us is to not move at all! Do not move if He has not moved first unless you want to experience heartbreaks and hard knocks. Try to keep calm and trust Him. I know that when it happens we tend to be overcome with fear and doubt but let us remember of John 14:1 Let our hearts not be troubled, believe in God; believe also in Me. (ESV Version) Do you have a decision to make NOW? Do you need to act very quick? Do you need a direction from the Lord? Do you? Do you? Believe in God and trust Him with your life. He knows your life

Woman Issue

Hello everyone! I thank God for your life. Please thank the Lord for all you have and do not have YET! I am saying yet because I believe that you shall have it in His Time if it is in His will, so do not get discouraged, do not lose heart, give thanks to the Lord seeing your breakthrough!!! Today, my title is Woman Issue, to tell you the truth i did not know how to entitle it. I gave this name because I noticed that this "issue" is common among women. That being said, let us turn our Bibles in 2 Corinthians 10: 12: Not that we dare to classify or compare ourselves with some of those who are commending themselves. but when they measure themselves by one another and compare themselves with one another, they are without understanding. Comparison! Oh that word is a true disease among womanhood! How many women compare themselves with each other? How many women feel inferior to others women because they " lack" of certain things? How many women are hating o

What are they saying about you?

Hello wonderful ladies of God! I trust God that you are all doing well by His Grace. Let us continue to press on and to push on! The end is worth it!  Today, I am not going to be long. I want to share with you Matthew 5:16  In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven. I do not personally believe that our identity must be shaped by our acquaintances, or friends. Our identity is shaped by the Word of God. But here, God revealed to me something as I was meditating upon it. Our identity is shaped by his Word but its authenticity is tested by our families, friends, etc. It is too easy to say that you are light still your works are done in the darkness. It is too easy to say that we are Christian yet we are holding grudges against each other. The soldier at the cross confessed that Jesus was truly the Son of God. What are men saying about you? What are your family saying about you?

Why I am called DelaJoy?

Her name was bitterness. She did not even know it. She would have never known this. It took the Holy Spirit to ask her through her pastor the meaning of her name. She thought it was useless to search for it. She is a new creation in Christ. Her mind changed when the veil was removed from her eyes .....What is your name? Today, I want to share with you about names. You see you must understand that the name that you have has an impact on you. You need revelation to understand it and to break all the spiritual evil bondages associated to your name in Jesus Christ. When a mother delivers a child, she already knows the name she would give to her baby. She had thought about it, had even arguments over it with her spouse. They had to pray if Christians. They had to agree. Some parents give names to their child according to the circumstances in which their children came. The Bible shows us that well with the story of Leah. The first child of Leah was Reuben( Genesis 29:32). She said he

John 3: 16 The purpose for salvation

Hello wonderful ladies of God, I trust the Lord that we are continuing to make it in this life. Yes, it is not easy to live the God Way , yes it is not easy to be a woman who decided to be pure while everyone is ' having fun' but it is possible with God to do ALL THINGS, is that not powerful....I think YES I have learnt that God does all things by purpose. When He created man there wasz a purpose. The purpose was to have someone made in His Image with who He will have communion. When God made the creation, there was a purpose. Creation worhip God. When God created the birds and all that is in it, there was a purpose, the purpose of the man He created to work by naming each of them. For if God was able to create, the man He made in His Image could also create things and create names for those living animals. God does all things for a purpose. For a long time, I thought my life had not purpose. I was slave to sin, I did not know He loved me, I did not know He had a pur

THE EFFECT OF FEAR IN SOMEONE S LIFE

  It is been too long she thought. Never I will see this breakthrough...I am scared of being alone for the rest of my life. I do not have a job, oh God how many times have I been praying to thee? I do not think I will work one day, it is time for me to think about something else. Maybe was I called only to serve God in His temple and never work!!oh yes...oh where am I heading to? My life is so meaningless .....oh God where are you? She thought about all this. She was walking fro and to, walking with no destination in mind, she just needed to think and to go out....she thought the fresh air would help her to carry the burden she was feeling at this stage of her life......     This morning I would like to share with you the effect of fear in someone s life. I have been so blessed when God used my spiritual father to talk about it and I felt the need to share it with you. First of all, I want you to know that fear is not an emotion, it is a spirit a spirit that kills faith, our