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| [God desired you, imagined then created you with passion] |
'I am depressed, Tabitha. I am 29 and still do not have a beloved. I am tired. '
Me: Are you serving in your church?'
Singleness is not a curse, it is a blessing. Ladies, once you will be married, there will be tons of things you would not do anymore. For instance, you would not be able to sleep at the side of the bed you like. I love sleeping on the left side on my bed. I do not know if my husband to be would be happy to sleep on the right side. You may say ' Would that be a problem, well. Yes, if you stick to your position'.
My pastor shared with us once that a couple almost divorced because at night they were having issues on the air conditionneer and the electric fan. One wanted the air conditionneer and the other the fan. It became a huge problem.
There is a time for everytime. You should enjoy your time of being just alone. No matter the age you have. Do not open the doors to depression.
I have noticed that it is very easy to become depressed once you do nothing. An idle person is exposed to the spirit of depression. Do something of your days. Keep yourself busy!
The chat I shared in my introduction was a chat I had with a sister I love very much. Ladies, you cannot look for a husband without knowing the One who will give you a husband!
You want a husband but you do not serve the Lord. Why God should honor you when you choose to not use the talents you have for your glory. Why should He give you a husband when all matters to you is this husband and not His house. Is this not selfishness right there.
What does the Word says about this? Take delight in the Lord and He shall give you the desires of your heart (Psalms 37:4).
His delight comes before your desire. It is simple as this. Your life has a destiny and a purpose. Your purpose is not your husband. You were before he comes.
Serve the Lord. Involve yourself in God's Field. The harvest is great but there are few laboureres. Will God find you amongst those? I pray He does.
Ruth was serving her mother in law before she meets Boaz. She was into God's Work. She was genuinely serving God through Naomi.
May you serve God not because through this you will find your husband but because your life belongs to Him.
This is how a woman of Impact thinks. Your depression, worrieness, bitterness will go away once you start genuinely serve Him.
He will fill you with peace and wisdom and gives you a joyful heart.
You are loved,
Tabitha
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