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Ladies, I had to forgive myself

Hello Ladies Wonderfully Made, I trust the Lord that you are all doing well by His Mercy and Grace. Today, I want to just share something with you. Something very intimate about myself. I know after you read this, many will wonder " Is Lala mad? Is Lala aware of what she did"? The answer to your questions is " yes, Lala is aware and she was fully convinced by the Holy Spirit". Please bear with me, for it is a quite long article. For a long time, I was struggling with unforgiveness. Unforgiveness towards myself. I was so bitter against myself, can you imagine it? I know for those who had the opportunity to meet me or chat with me, you can think right now" but Lala, how? I never knew". That's right, it is because you are a man and you look at the outward. It is amazing  how one can deceive himself/herself thinking everything is okay while everything is wrong. To tell you the truth, I myself never knew really that I was even having th

Ladies, do not consider things of the past!

(As you wait) Consider not the things of the past! Isaiah 43: 18 Do not [earnestly] remember the former things; neither consider the things of old. 19 .Behold, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs forth; do you not perceive and know it and will you not give heed to it? I will even make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert. Bishop Dag Heward Mills says once that women have more problems than men. It is true for as ladies, we tend to be more involved in what we do. Just look at how a lady will involve herself in a relationship if she is in love. She will ponder over it, she will even sometimes prepare her wedding and even prepare names for the children she will have with the beloved. While in the head of the man, it will not be the case. This is mainly because the woman was created for relationship. Now, it happened that as women we ponder over what happened to us, this is because of the fact that when we give all in something or someone and we are not reap

Ladies, count your blessings!

"Is God going to put a smile on my face also? Is God going to bless me too with a job, with the anointing, in my studies? Is God even hearing my cries and supplications? Is God...?" She prayed and she cried her heart out loud to Christ. She was confused, she was bitter, she was broken, she needed PEACE OF MIND. Like this woman, you may be at a point of your life when most things are going wrong for you. You do not even seem to understand why it feels like the whole world is against you. It may seem to you that Christ has departed from you, and that your prayers are in vain. Are you going through a tough storm right now? Are you feeling like God does not listen to you sometimes? Today, I would like to encourage you. You see, God is not a man to lie what He says in His Word will always come to pass. For He is so faithful! Do you know that sometimes God can choose to just remain silent? That God does not speak always especially when He already spoke to you but it

Ladies, develop the art of waiting...

My big sister and I "8Better is the end of a thing than the beginning thereof: and the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit.9 Be not HASTY in thy spirit...". As she was praying, this was the scripture that Christ put into her heart, and the Holy Spirit told her something that she will never forget by the Grace, He said " I will teach you about the Art of Waiting, I want you to know how to wait upon your blessings without being depressed". That was me three months ago....Today, I want to ask you something. Is there a promise that Christ gave to you and up to now you are still waiting upon it, there is nothing coming that you even start to doubt upon what God has told you? As ladies, as I said we tend to be driven more by our emotions than the Spirit of God, we need to learn how to wait. I believe that the major area where we still struggle is relationship especially marriage as we get close to 30 years old.  "Everyone is getting marr

Woman of God, use your season to achieve your purpose.

Hello wonderful ladies of God. After a long time of silence, here I am back to you. I hope you all have been doing fine. Today, I just want to share a small exhortation that I actually received from a sister of mine and I believe it will encourage too as well. Yesterday on my way to church, I was chatting with a certain sister , I was actually a bit shocked when she asked me about my blog and why I had not been posted this days. As I tried to reply to her question, I noticed that there was not a proper reason per se. Then she asked me "In which season are you in"? I still could not get the message behind it. By the time, I got home the Holy Spirit reminded me this question and told me that my season will always affect my attitudes, perceptions and even your emotions. Lady Reverend Adelaide Heward Mills in her preaching " The Woman in the midst of change" would say that as the season changes we should be careful to not change ourselves but rather to adapt ours