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Ladies,Your situation is not your identity

Good day all wonderful ladies in the Lord,

Today, I am so blessed to write to you once again. I have been off for a while and I thank God for it was for good. We celebrated three weddings and we saw the hand of God throughout those blessed events. I was honoured to be the maid of honor during one of those weddings and I thank God for this grace.

I would like today to encourage again a lady and remind her of the fact that she is not her ' problem'. Those days, as we speaking of the church were so overwhelmed with the organization of those weddings, I could hear many women thinking about their future. When will I get married? I think marriage is not for me, look how I am growing older still no proposal....

Some women already married were also thinking of their future in terms of having babies. They thought they would not have the grace to have some before they die. Most of them lost hope and start to feel comfortable in the situation where they were....Sad, isn't it?

Maybe you are also in this case. But let me tell you something. You aren't your situation, you are a Child of God. Barreness is not the inheritance of God, Unemployment, Singlehood ( unless you have received the grace to be a Paul), do not be like Naomi who refused to be called and chose instead to be called Mara.

Mara means bitterness while Naomi meant happiness. Do not trade your joy for the sorrows of this world. You are blessed beyong your imagination. Do you know that this make God sad, the Holy Spirit grieve when He sees that you refused His Grace to cling to the ashes.....

Your problem isn't your identity. Your identity is found in Christ. Christ paid the price so you can live a life of abundance. Remember He is the Good Sheperd. He laid His life for you.

Proclaim the Word over your life.

Say with me

I am not worried about anything because I present my life every day to God. Philipians 4:6

God is coming to rescue me from any difficult situations. Isaiah 41:10

I have faith in God, No fear is found with my heart. Romains 15; 13

I am already blessed. Ephesians 1:3

Meditate on His Word and walk in joy as God meets your needs according to His Will in Jesus Name.

Much Love,

Joy

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