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Keys to a successful season of singleness!




Have you ever been in a situation where you do not know how to enjoy your season? You feel void and do not know what to do? And on top of that, you are single! Have you ever been in a situation where you think ' yes, I am single but I do not want to become desperate and search a man because I do feel like there is a purpose for me in this season designed by God?' Well, if you have been there, bear with me for some minutes.

I was just like you a year ago. I felt very alone, everyone around me was having a beloved ( a person you are in couple with and the purpose is marriage both of you are keeping yourself pure before God) and so was I completely alone. My close friends could not hang out with me anymore as I wished because they had to bond with their husbands to be. I became very depressed, I tell you.

It was in this season that God connected me with great women of God and that He taught me a lot about the purpose of singleness and marriage. I would like to share with you the first key He gave me to enjoy my singleness.

In Genesis 2.18, God clearly showed us that loneliness was not a good thing. He Himself is not alone, He is three in One. God does not want to be alone at all. But before God brings to us the man or woman He designed for us, we ought to abide in Him. Adam was in Eden before Eve came forth. 

Eden was a place where God's presence abounded. He used to come down and commune with Adam. The same still applies nowadays. God wants us to commune with Him during this season. Before meeting this man, be sure you have met God and that you know Him.

You will only be able to enjoy your singleness if you have learnt to enjoy God's presence. Otherwise, you will begin to complain, murmurs, and end up being depressed.

I pray you use this season to enjoy God's presence. 

For more details on this first key, check out my youtube Channel : The Tabitha Show( English content) or Femmes Merveilleusement Crées( French contents). There, I elaborate more on this first key.

Love you ladies,
Remember you have been chosen to impact people and serve Christ


Tabitha Joy

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