Ladies Wonderfully Made

                           Will I survive from this? Will I recover ? Will I smile again ?             So many questions, we asks ourselves after a sad event. It may be the loss of someone, a breakup, a disease, unemployment, well after a bad case we often tend to reconsider everything in our lives. If you are at this stage, know you are not alone. Many people like you have gone through this or actually are going through this.             I love the Word of God because it talks about many situations we can relate to. As it says, nothing new is before the sun, everything that is have already been, and what will be is already. So is this situation you are going through...Do you remember the story of Naomi in Judges?                The Word says that after loosing her husband and her sons, she became bitter....

Have you ever looked yourself in the mirror and appreciate the person you see? Have you ever thought you were not beautiful enough, nor pretty enough? Do you love yourself? Do you love your body? The way you move? If not, then continue to read may the Spirit open your eyes to let you see the beautiful person you are in Jesus Name! Hello precious! Today, I am going to share with you about self-love. How sad it is to see many women comparing themselves to other women! It breaks my heart every time I hear a lady saying 'I just want to be like her', or 'If only I was her'. Have you ever thought this way?  I think we all have...but the good news is you can decide to choose this way of thinking. You are unique. No one on earth can smile like you, can talk like you, can act like you, you are a very peculiar person, and God has no more stock of you in heaven, this should make you think twice.  When I was a teenager, I used to compare myself to my little sister...

"How do you do to recover from a breakup with someone you loved so much and never imagine your life without? How do you do you to keep yourself all together despite the many feelings that overcome you? How do you do to keep trusting God during this hard time?....." Hello Precious, I hope you are doing great by God's Grace. Today, I would like to talk to you about breakup. Yes, it is very sensitive I know but I do receive this type of questions from young ladies and to tell you the truth, I do not have a magic remedy that will make you feel better or make the pain you feel at the moment suddenly go away........ But the good news is God still loves you and is with you although you may think otherwise.... The Word says in Revelation 21.5 "Behold, I make all things new" . First of all, I want you to know that this breakup is not the end of you. Do not think for a second that you will never be happy again nor you do not deserve the best in your lif...

Some time later God tested  Abraham. He said to him, “Abraham!” “Here I am,”  he replied. 2  Then God said, “Take your son , your only son, whom you love—Isaac—and go to the region of Moriah.  Sacrifice him there as a burnt offering  on a mountain I will show you. ” Genesis 22.1-2  Dear daugther, do you have an Isaac in your life? Someone that you love tenderly and cherrish, something for what you have prayed for so much and God has given you...I don't know if you know the feeling of joy that overwhelm a new mother who just gave birth to her new born baby especially if this baby was so much wanted and desired.....It is an indescriptible joy, isn't it?  Then, imagine this woman being told to give away her only child, her only joy, her only "everything" it is complicated! I remember years ago, I was in a relationship and was so much in love with this brother, God told me "You are not ready to marry yet. I need you to put an end to this r...

The prudent see danger and take refuge, but the simple keep going and pay the penalty. Proverbs 22:3 I do believe that women are more sensitive than men. I believe that God made us this way and we should be conscious of it. One of the things I started not to under-evaluate once I became a Christian was my weaknesses. I told myself ' Know where your weakness lies and pray about it'. Many tend to think that because they have the Holy Spirit with them, then they are super-strong! They cannot fall anymore! They are powerful! It is a deception to think this way and thinking this way will actually lead you to your downfall! The Holy Spirit makes us more conscious of our vulnerablity but He also reminds us that if we abide in Christ, He shall give us the power to overcome any temptation. Women of God, do you know what are your weaknesses ? Do you recognize them or deliberately ignore them ? I knew that as a new born again Christian, one of my main weakness was sex. I used to b...

Good day beautiful ladies! It has been years but I am around, I have been lately busy with organising my new season!!!!! I am more than excited of what God is doing now and I shall at the right time tell you more about this. Today is Valentine's Day and many single ladies like me  have been asked the question of ' where is your valentine?' What are you going to do on Valentine' s Day? People have made it such an event that if we are not rooted in the Word and God's love we can feel depressed or worried especially if we are in age to marry. First of all, ladies do not take this at heart. A friend of mine who got married recently wrote this on her wall ' I am not a Valentine' s Day fan but for all those who are waiting for their husbands, keep waiting upon the Lord and trust in His timing!! It shall be well'. Maybe for this year, you thought you would have a fiance to spend this day with, maybe you hoped for this year to spend it with your h...

'Now, it is time to go. I have prepared new things for you said the Lord. But Lord, I am feeling good here. I love them so much she cried. Do you trust Me? He finally asked her. She knew it was the end of their little chat.' This was me few months ago. God told me it was time for me to go into a new land and part of the world I do not know. I would lie if I tell you He never told me that before. In fact, He spoke to me throughout the year 2015 through visions but I closed my ears. The fear of new things paralyzed me and I soon began to be rebellious to Him. As you can guess, my rebellion to God did not give me peace, I became very depressed and barren spiritually. I had to repent sincerely to recover my spiritual wellness. I was leading the Youth Department in the church and I cannot tell you how much I struggle in the ministry once I became rebellious to God. 2015 was a year where I have learnt through tears and depression that it is better to obey than to sacrifice....

Have you heard God telling you something and until now you are waiting for it? Then this post is for you. We are all awaiting things God promised to give us. The problem some have is that while we wait, we proclaim negative things on our lives and this makes the blessings of God to be postponed in our lives. Ecclesiastes 3 tells us that there is a season for everything. There is a season to wait, there is a season to receive, there is a season to love, there is a season to love. In each of the seasons of our lives, God wants to build something in us. The waiting season is a season where God builds up our characters. Depending on what God has for you, He may make you go into the wilderness. The wilderness is a season where nothing flows, where your friends leave you, where you are alone with your battle and God. The wilderness is a season where God teaches you to trust and depend on Him. Some wilderness takes one months, some are longer. The longer, the merrier? I do not...

There is a time for everything under the sun. At a certain period in my life, I wanted God to reveal to me the times for His blessings in my life. I was asking Him, when will be the time for me to get a job, to enter into ministry, to get married and so on. At a point, I became very worried because to me I was in danger. But you see faith is a spiritual thing. We live by faith as Christian, we do not live by prophecies. Prophecies over our life can strengthen our faith but we cannot live by them. To God, faith is really important. Maybe you really feel alone. Maybe you see your age flying and you question God about your marriage. Know that God will not give you the exact time. He may tell you it will be in two years but He won't tell you you will meet him tomorrow. God loves to surprise us. He makes all things beautiful at his time(Ecclesiastes3:11). In this verse ,God does not talk about His time but rather on the time He appointed for this thing you want. There is a...

[God desired you, imagined then created you with passion] 'I am depressed, Tabitha. I am 29 and still do not have a beloved. I am tired. ' Me: Are you serving in your church?' Singleness is not a curse, it is a blessing. Ladies, once you will be married, there will be tons of things you would not do anymore. For instance, you would not be able to sleep at the side of the bed you like. I love sleeping on the left side on my bed. I do not know if my husband to be would be happy to sleep on the right side. You may say ' Would that be a problem, well. Yes, if you stick to your position'. My pastor shared with us once that a couple almost divorced because at night they were having issues on the air conditionneer and the electric fan. One wanted the air conditionneer and the other the fan. It became a huge problem. There is a time for everytime. You should enjoy your time of being just alone. No matter the age you have. Do not open the...

Look at this smile! Look at that ring! Look how happy she is! I love Weddings! It is so beautiful! Who can speak best about marriage if not the one who is enjoying her marriage!!!! Women who do not enjoy their marriage would not recommend their sisters to marry, they will give them '100 reasons why a marriage will stress you out'. But this is not our portion, and if we know some married women going through a tough time, let s get on our knees and pray for them! We need each other in this world! I used to be very bitter. This was because I suffered a lot from the divorce of my parents. They divorced when I was 9 and it took me 10 years to recover. I had so much hatred for men that I used to play with their hearts. When I was in high school, I had the nickname of Beyoncé.  This was because I knew all her songs and dance moves. I was just crazy about her. I loved seducing men and sleep there and sleep. Not because I was in love, I just wanted to brea...

Good day my beautiful!!! I hope this previous post helped you to see in a new angle your singleness. Today, I would like to share with you another key that the Holy Spirit gave me. Singleness without a purpose is boring and useless. I met many Christian married ladies and they kept me telling the same thing over ' I discovered my purpose while I was single. I thank God because today I do not depend on my husband to exist'. God did not create us to depend on our future husband. We came in to help men to achieve their purpose by complementing them. Many Single Christian ladies believe that once they marry their desires will be fulfilled. They think changing their status will make them complete!!! What a schock!  If you are on this group of sisters, please change your mind and fill it with the Word. God never created incomplete people. He created complete people. We are complete in Him not in a husband. Use this season to discover who you are. I love...

Have you ever been in a situation where you do not know how to enjoy your season? You feel void and do not know what to do? And on top of that, you are single! Have you ever been in a situation where you think ' yes, I am single but I do not want to become desperate and search a man because I do feel like there is a purpose for me in this season designed by God?' Well, if you have been there, bear with me for some minutes. I was just like you a year ago. I felt very alone, everyone around me was having a beloved ( a person you are in couple with and the purpose is marriage both of you are keeping yourself pure before God) and so was I completely alone. My close friends could not hang out with me anymore as I wished because they had to bond with their husbands to be. I became very depressed, I tell you. It was in this season that God connected me with great women of God and that He taught me a lot about the purpose of singleness and marriage. I would like to s...

' As I was making my niece eat, the devil wishepered to my ears' look, this is a delicous chocolate croissant will you not have a bite of it. Cut your fast and taste this croissant. You will not postpone your blessings for this.' This was me one day. I was fasting during this period because I really needed to be restored and strengthened by the Lord. I wanted to know where I was in my walk with Christ. Trust me fasting is one of the best way to maintain your connection with God and be restored. Yes, when you pray, serve the Lord in your local church you are connected to God. But when you fast, you become more sensitive to the voice of God. Why?Because your flesh is submitted to the Lord and your spirit communes daily with your Master. When you practice this spiritual exercise often, it becomes easy for you to not accomplish the desires of the flesh to do the will of your Heavenly Fasther. The devil knows that when we fast, blessings will follow us accor...

'She went out and decided to pray in tongues as walking. It was not the first time she has done it and today once again the Lord led her to only pray in His language. So she was praying not aloud though but she prayed. As she approached the robot, she heard a voice calling her ' Tabitha' it was a gentle voice. She knew it was Her Lord and Master.' This was my day on Friday, I never had such an experience with the Lord before. I had friends and even mothers in the Lord that told me not to call them by their names but by the ones God gave them. I never doubted their judgment, but I always wondered how God could call someone by another name? Name that you did not received from your parents. He called me 'Tabitha' and I was asking Him why Lord why Tabitha. Personally and for those who know me, I love so much Esther. If you asked me, what was my favorite book in the Bible before, I would say without hesitation Esther. I just loved the similitude she has with Jesu...

Have you ever been asked to do something knowing that you lacked of some resources?  This is exactly what happened to me. It has been a while the Lord put it in my heart but I was so discouraged for I knew that I didn't have all the equipment such as a good camera,  a computer(.mine just crashed) and so on. But I decided not to give up and to start with the strength I have to start off :my love for God,  the Holy Spirit and my phone. To keep up with me,  click the link below. Stay blessed!   https://youtu.be/wF_O2L0vU-M

Picture taken on Pininterest.com Have you ever looked back to your previous life speaking about how God changed you and still does? Have you ever imagined what would happened to you if He had not laid out His very life for you? I cannot say thank you properly to God for the sacrifice of His Son.   Words cannot express properly what Jesus had done for me. What I think about His sacrifice, I thank God for calling me and saving me. For those who have read my previous posts, you would know how my life was. A great fornicator I was. I could do it from Monday to Sunday although I attended a Church at that time religiously, it did not stop me. You see the fact that you are a Regular Christian at church services does not mean necessarily that you are saved and mature. Christianity is about relationship. The relationship of God and us through Christ Our Savior. I always cry when I think about how God saved me. You see do not judge people who sin despite your rebukes. Do not des...