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The right attitude for Valentine's Day...

Good day beautiful ladies! It has been years but I am around, I have been lately busy with organising my new season!!!!! I am more than excited of what God is doing now and I shall at the right time tell you more about this.

Today is Valentine's Day and many single ladies like me  have been asked the question of ' where is your valentine?' What are you going to do on Valentine' s Day? People have made it such an event that if we are not rooted in the Word and God's love we can feel depressed or worried especially if we are in age to marry.

First of all, ladies do not take this at heart. A friend of mine who got married recently wrote this on her wall ' I am not a Valentine' s Day fan but for all those who are waiting for their husbands, keep waiting upon the Lord and trust in His timing!! It shall be well'.

Maybe for this year, you thought you would have a fiance to spend this day with, maybe you hoped for this year to spend it with your husband who is still not showing up ( for now). You maybe had plans concerning this day and it seems like none of them will turn up as you wished.

Please do not get bitter towards other women! Some ladies are writing things like ' Valentine' s Day is not important and so on', some really are not interested of celebrating it but some are just writing it because they are fed up about their situation and that they are in pain. To mask their pain, they write hurtful status on their Facebook walls to make others fell bad concerning this day.

The Word says the Holy Spirit alone convinces us of sin and judgement. Do not force your judgement on others. Respect them and pray for the grace to obey  God for any direction He has given you. 

Secondly, do  not try to get in touch once again with that guy you broke up with just for the sake of Valentine's Day. Do not go back to your vomit, you are a Queen, behave as one! If you feel very down, go for a movie, plan a date with your best friend or just enjoy being with yourself. 

Personnally, I am not into the Valentine mood but before I used to go on this day for a movie. I love going to the movies and since I did not have a lot of time to do it  because of my busy schedule, I was going on this day just to please myself. You may say ' Okay, but then won' t you embarrassed to see couples outside kissing and holding hands'. NO! 

I have learnt to trust God's timing. I really do not compare my life to others. I am happy for my friends who are married and those currently engaged. My turn will come, my God does all things beautiful in its time. I know what God told me so I do not see the point of envying others.


Do not wish to be like others! You are you and God is pleased with that. Bless the Lord for the glodly couples around you and keep trusting Him.


Finally, do not close yourself up into your room! This is the day the Lord has made and we will rejoice and be glad in it! Ask the Lord how to spend this day without feeling any pressure, He will be glad to tell you what to do and as you do, your heart shall be full of joy!


It is said of the virtuous woman that she smiiles at the future!!!! She smiles not because everything is going smoothly in her life, she smiles because she knows her God has great plans for her and that He shall keep His Word!



Have a glorious day !!!!

You are loved!!!!


Tabitha.

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