Ladies Wonderfully Made

'Now, it is time to go. I have prepared new things for you said the Lord. But Lord, I am feeling good here. I love them so much she cried. Do you trust Me? He finally asked her. She knew it was the end of their little chat.' This was me few months ago. God told me it was time for me to go into a new land and part of the world I do not know. I would lie if I tell you He never told me that before. In fact, He spoke to me throughout the year 2015 through visions but I closed my ears. The fear of new things paralyzed me and I soon began to be rebellious to Him. As you can guess, my rebellion to God did not give me peace, I became very depressed and barren spiritually. I had to repent sincerely to recover my spiritual wellness. I was leading the Youth Department in the church and I cannot tell you how much I struggle in the ministry once I became rebellious to God. 2015 was a year where I have learnt through tears and depression that it is better to obey than to sacrifice....

Have you heard God telling you something and until now you are waiting for it? Then this post is for you. We are all awaiting things God promised to give us. The problem some have is that while we wait, we proclaim negative things on our lives and this makes the blessings of God to be postponed in our lives. Ecclesiastes 3 tells us that there is a season for everything. There is a season to wait, there is a season to receive, there is a season to love, there is a season to love. In each of the seasons of our lives, God wants to build something in us. The waiting season is a season where God builds up our characters. Depending on what God has for you, He may make you go into the wilderness. The wilderness is a season where nothing flows, where your friends leave you, where you are alone with your battle and God. The wilderness is a season where God teaches you to trust and depend on Him. Some wilderness takes one months, some are longer. The longer, the merrier? I do not...

There is a time for everything under the sun. At a certain period in my life, I wanted God to reveal to me the times for His blessings in my life. I was asking Him, when will be the time for me to get a job, to enter into ministry, to get married and so on. At a point, I became very worried because to me I was in danger. But you see faith is a spiritual thing. We live by faith as Christian, we do not live by prophecies. Prophecies over our life can strengthen our faith but we cannot live by them. To God, faith is really important. Maybe you really feel alone. Maybe you see your age flying and you question God about your marriage. Know that God will not give you the exact time. He may tell you it will be in two years but He won't tell you you will meet him tomorrow. God loves to surprise us. He makes all things beautiful at his time(Ecclesiastes3:11). In this verse ,God does not talk about His time but rather on the time He appointed for this thing you want. There is a...

[God desired you, imagined then created you with passion] 'I am depressed, Tabitha. I am 29 and still do not have a beloved. I am tired. ' Me: Are you serving in your church?' Singleness is not a curse, it is a blessing. Ladies, once you will be married, there will be tons of things you would not do anymore. For instance, you would not be able to sleep at the side of the bed you like. I love sleeping on the left side on my bed. I do not know if my husband to be would be happy to sleep on the right side. You may say ' Would that be a problem, well. Yes, if you stick to your position'. My pastor shared with us once that a couple almost divorced because at night they were having issues on the air conditionneer and the electric fan. One wanted the air conditionneer and the other the fan. It became a huge problem. There is a time for everytime. You should enjoy your time of being just alone. No matter the age you have. Do not open the...

Look at this smile! Look at that ring! Look how happy she is! I love Weddings! It is so beautiful! Who can speak best about marriage if not the one who is enjoying her marriage!!!! Women who do not enjoy their marriage would not recommend their sisters to marry, they will give them '100 reasons why a marriage will stress you out'. But this is not our portion, and if we know some married women going through a tough time, let s get on our knees and pray for them! We need each other in this world! I used to be very bitter. This was because I suffered a lot from the divorce of my parents. They divorced when I was 9 and it took me 10 years to recover. I had so much hatred for men that I used to play with their hearts. When I was in high school, I had the nickname of Beyoncé.  This was because I knew all her songs and dance moves. I was just crazy about her. I loved seducing men and sleep there and sleep. Not because I was in love, I just wanted to brea...

Good day my beautiful!!! I hope this previous post helped you to see in a new angle your singleness. Today, I would like to share with you another key that the Holy Spirit gave me. Singleness without a purpose is boring and useless. I met many Christian married ladies and they kept me telling the same thing over ' I discovered my purpose while I was single. I thank God because today I do not depend on my husband to exist'. God did not create us to depend on our future husband. We came in to help men to achieve their purpose by complementing them. Many Single Christian ladies believe that once they marry their desires will be fulfilled. They think changing their status will make them complete!!! What a schock!  If you are on this group of sisters, please change your mind and fill it with the Word. God never created incomplete people. He created complete people. We are complete in Him not in a husband. Use this season to discover who you are. I love...

Have you ever been in a situation where you do not know how to enjoy your season? You feel void and do not know what to do? And on top of that, you are single! Have you ever been in a situation where you think ' yes, I am single but I do not want to become desperate and search a man because I do feel like there is a purpose for me in this season designed by God?' Well, if you have been there, bear with me for some minutes. I was just like you a year ago. I felt very alone, everyone around me was having a beloved ( a person you are in couple with and the purpose is marriage both of you are keeping yourself pure before God) and so was I completely alone. My close friends could not hang out with me anymore as I wished because they had to bond with their husbands to be. I became very depressed, I tell you. It was in this season that God connected me with great women of God and that He taught me a lot about the purpose of singleness and marriage. I would like to s...