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How to handle temptations




" I fell into temptation, I thought I was much stronger than that. I did not want to do it". Have you ever find yourself in this kind of situation, where you end up doing something that you did not want to do? As young christian ladies beautifully made, I believe you should be more wise in our ways to do things. It can be assumed that one of the temptation where christian ladies fall the most into in the temptation of having sexual intercourse before marriage....


People do not want to listen about it, because they do not want people to remind them that what they are doing is not good but also they feel judged and not understood. Some also tried to stop doing it but still they are struggling and feel less christians, less spiritual. Ladies, I want to tell you that first you should not  ashamed of it, you are not the only people in the world that struggle with it. Also, I want to tell you that you need to acknowledge your weakness, and recognize that it is a sin and as the Bible says " flee from fornication". You should do your best to stay away from it. Fornication is not the only sin with what young ladies can fall into as I said earlier, but it is the most current. I want to give you the secret( yes, there is one) in order to not fall into temptation anymore. The secret is .....PRAYER!


Ladies, the Bible says that in Ephesians 1 that we have been created by God to live a pure and holy life. Yes, there will be temptations, yes there would be struggle but the solution to overcome them is prayer! Jesus said in the book of Matthew 26 :41  Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation. Ladies you do not want to fall into temptation anymore, you want to live a holy life, let me tell you that it is POSSIBLE and you can do it through prayer! I realized some time ago, that when you pray you are strengthened not only in your spirit but also in your body. Prays helps a lot! It is your food as a christian. The more you will pray, the more the fear of God will grow in you, and the more you will refuse to do what is not good in the sight of God.


Finally, do not put yourself in situations that will incite you to sin. Avoid being in a close room with a guy, avoid being in a situation where you know you will fall into temptation. Temptation is real ladies, you sometimes say " God is with me, it is okay we will not sin" while we know that the same God said " flee from temptation". He did not say be in a bad environment, but He said flee!! Every time you see a situation where temptation is run away from it!
Be serious, ladies be God fearing, flee from temptation, live a holy life. It is possible through God's'power and by having a life prayer.



Much love,



Lala.

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