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Ladies, when you are unloved....(part 1)

"She cried. She sat on her bed and said oh I am not worthy of love. what can I do for one to love me? What should I do? I am a mess. Will I only be loved one day? She broke in tears.." Have you ever thought like no one loved you, like you were not worthy of love? Today I want to encourage you dear woman of God. As women, we have the tendency to do anything in order to make someone love us or to be accepted by someone. We even compromise on what we may believe just to be accepted. Is this not sad? Ladies, never compromise your beliefs and identity for someone, be who you are. Do not pretend to be who you are not. Be who God wants you to be! In Genesis 29, we found the beautiful story of Leah. Leah was that woman that was rejected by her husband and people. In fact, no one had chosen her to be his wife. To get married, she had to marry the husband of her younger sister! Jacob never planned on getting married with her at all! I am sure that Leah was heartbroken, I am

Ladies, why do you pray?

"1 Corinthians 1: 9 God is faithful, by whom you were called into the fellowship of His Son, Jesus Christ our Lord." Some of my brethen from Lighthouse Chapel International The Word of God says that God is faithful and then God called us to fellowship with His Son. Ladies, today I want to ask you something : why do you pray? Why do you fellowship with God? Some of us only go to God when we have issues. We go to God because we need solution to our problems. We go to Him because we know He can hear and help us. There is nothing wrong with you going to the throne of God to plead your case but when it is the only reason why you go to His presence, then you need to watch it. Have you ever prayed without asking anything to Christ ? Have you ever prayed for three hours just to say " Lord I thank You"? Even by reading this you may think " Lala, three hours just to say thanks!" Oh Yes, my sisters and it is not even enough.  On Sunday , something ver

Ladies, are you trustworthy?

  Hello beautiful ladies in the Lord. I hope that you are all doing well by His special Grace. May Grace, Favor and Mercy be renewed unto your lives in the name of Yeshoua!Amen. Today, I want to ask you a question" are you trustworthy"? Can God reveal to you things to come and you will be able to keep it until what you saw come to pass. God cannot reveal certain things to some of us because He knows how much we can talk! Ladies, we have a lot of "issues" , I tell you. If you are a sanguine, chaley(my friend) you may need to learn how to keep quiet from time to time. Sanguine people are people who are outgoing, they flow with everyone. They are among the popular people. We need them for our parties or meetings to be successful. They are very joyful. Because they always talk, people around them may feel outcasted, or not heard..... You may say "I am not then a sanguine, in fact I do not talk much". Then, my sweetheart you may need to learn how to spe

Ladies, are you proud?

"You are proud", the Holy Spirit told her one day. She was very shocked to hear this from Him. She said "Sweet Holy Spirit, You know how humble I am. I give to people, when people are in need of money, I give. I serve. Come on. I am not proud. He continued You are proud and I will teach you humility." Some weeks back, those were the words that the Holy Spirit told me. One day, I was listening to one of my daddy's preaching, our founding Bishop Dag Heward Mills about Pride, Humility and Disloyalty and he said something that I now understand. He said 'It is very difficult to know whether you are proud or not" and he added " people who say they are humble watch them for they are likely to be proud'. As the Holy Spirit was telling me how proud I was and I was defending myself, my dad's voice came back to me.  I just realized that chaley, the Spirit is always right and I am always wrong. I was giving to the Holy Spirit five reasons wh

Ladies, be a seeker of the anointing!

  Many women live their lives without knowing their true purpose. How sad! Many women define their happiness based on the fact of being married and having someone who loves them. What a deception! Ladies in the Lord, please do not make this mistake. You were never created to live for a man! I mean never at all! God created you to tell His Wonders! Those who are married will even tell you that a man will never satisfy you, marriage is a ministry! Those days, I realized how everything revolves around God. I mean everything. From the dress I wear to the make up I use, from the verse I read to the friends I have. Everything turns around God. My money belongs to God. A lot of women love spending their money into clothing, jewellery, and other things like that. As for me, this desire faded a long time ago. There is nothing wrong with spoiling yourself at all, please do not get me wrong but also know that you should build God's House. I thank God because I spend most of my money in His

Ladies, you are precious!

"She made tea. She set the table. She cooked his favourite meal. She left her friends to spend time with her husband to be. She knew he was precious to her." Some months ago, those were my thoughts about one of my friends who was preparing to get married. I could notice how she changed. I could see how much she valued her relationship with her husband to be, now her husband. Chaley, she will leave us to go and spend time with her beloved. She will just honour him. When she will speak about him, she will only mention good things, always portray him in a good light. I really wonder. I was very concerned for my sister ....(Laughs) but this was because I did not know what it meant to be precious in one's sight. This morning, as I was praying I was asking myself where should I turn for my quiet time( your time with God in His Word). As I was struggling to find something, the Holy Spirit told me " go back to Isaiah 43". At first, I refused. I was l

Ladies, I had to forgive myself

Hello Ladies Wonderfully Made, I trust the Lord that you are all doing well by His Mercy and Grace. Today, I want to just share something with you. Something very intimate about myself. I know after you read this, many will wonder " Is Lala mad? Is Lala aware of what she did"? The answer to your questions is " yes, Lala is aware and she was fully convinced by the Holy Spirit". Please bear with me, for it is a quite long article. For a long time, I was struggling with unforgiveness. Unforgiveness towards myself. I was so bitter against myself, can you imagine it? I know for those who had the opportunity to meet me or chat with me, you can think right now" but Lala, how? I never knew". That's right, it is because you are a man and you look at the outward. It is amazing  how one can deceive himself/herself thinking everything is okay while everything is wrong. To tell you the truth, I myself never knew really that I was even having th

Ladies, do not consider things of the past!

(As you wait) Consider not the things of the past! Isaiah 43: 18 Do not [earnestly] remember the former things; neither consider the things of old. 19 .Behold, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs forth; do you not perceive and know it and will you not give heed to it? I will even make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert. Bishop Dag Heward Mills says once that women have more problems than men. It is true for as ladies, we tend to be more involved in what we do. Just look at how a lady will involve herself in a relationship if she is in love. She will ponder over it, she will even sometimes prepare her wedding and even prepare names for the children she will have with the beloved. While in the head of the man, it will not be the case. This is mainly because the woman was created for relationship. Now, it happened that as women we ponder over what happened to us, this is because of the fact that when we give all in something or someone and we are not reap

Ladies, count your blessings!

"Is God going to put a smile on my face also? Is God going to bless me too with a job, with the anointing, in my studies? Is God even hearing my cries and supplications? Is God...?" She prayed and she cried her heart out loud to Christ. She was confused, she was bitter, she was broken, she needed PEACE OF MIND. Like this woman, you may be at a point of your life when most things are going wrong for you. You do not even seem to understand why it feels like the whole world is against you. It may seem to you that Christ has departed from you, and that your prayers are in vain. Are you going through a tough storm right now? Are you feeling like God does not listen to you sometimes? Today, I would like to encourage you. You see, God is not a man to lie what He says in His Word will always come to pass. For He is so faithful! Do you know that sometimes God can choose to just remain silent? That God does not speak always especially when He already spoke to you but it